Female fertility declines with age, and achieving pregnancy naturally after 35 is usually more challenging and carries higher risks. Thanks to advances in assisted reproduction, today it’s possible to become a mom or dad with fewer obstacles, even after 40, through fertility treatments.
Learn Olga’s story, who at 43 fulfilled her dream of becoming a mother thanks to a multicycle In Vitro Fertilization program.
What complications arise when trying to conceive at 43?
“We went through painful procedures without finding the cause: ‘infertility of unknown origin.’ My husband and I thought it was almost impossible to make it in time. Over the years I understood that, even though we postponed motherhood, that hope remained alive.”
How does the biological clock impact you after 40?
“I was 43 and my husband was 47; since it was my first pregnancy everything got complicated. We tried to conceive without help, but after 1.5 years and two clinics with no success, the emotional toll was immense: tests, ultrasounds, hysterosalpingograms…”
What role does social pressure play?
The pressure is intense. Even if you don’t believe “a woman only fulfills herself by being a mother,” when you want it with all your heart, every setback hurts and affects your mood, self-esteem and creates anxiety.
I almost gave up and thought about adoption. My husband and I supported each other and decided to give it one last try. It was the best decision of our lives.
How did Olga succeed with IVF at Ingenes?
I arrived at Ingenes in 2015 and, after three years of persistence, the final IVF cycle was intense: daily labs, follicle monitoring, egg retrieval and embryo transfer. Three months later, seeing the heartbeat on the first ultrasound made it all worthwhile.
When the doctor said, “it’s a girl,” our hearts exploded with emotion. Angelique’s first cry at birth was the most sublime moment: pure joy and relief.
Angelique brightened our lives and taught me that at 43, motherhood transforms everything: priorities, passions and the meaning of being.
Options for women over 40
Becoming a mother at 40 is possible. At Ingenes we design a personalized plan that optimizes your chances in the shortest time.
With our Initial Program we thoroughly evaluate your fertility. Our Assisted Reproduction specialists guide you every step of the way. Share your story or read testimonials: single mom at 43 or mother at 40. Soon you’ll be holding your baby.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the success rate of IVF in women over 40?
The IVF success rate between ages 40 and 45 ranges from 10% to 30% per cycle, depending on ovarian reserve and embryo quality (Human Reproduction; Fertility and Sterility). Preimplantation genetic testing (PGT-A) increases the chance of clinical pregnancy.
What risks come with pregnancy at 43?
The risk of hypertension, gestational diabetes and premature birth is up to double compared to women under 35 (Mayo Clinic; MedlinePlus). Strict obstetric monitoring, regular ultrasounds and surveillance of glucose and blood pressure reduce complications.
How do stress and emotional support influence outcomes?
Chronic stress alters the hypothalamic-pituitary axis, affecting ovulation and implantation (Journal of Assisted Reproduction and Genetics). Psychological support and support groups improve success rates.
Is self-medicating with fertility treatments advisable?
Do not self-medicate. The dosage and combination of drugs for ovarian stimulation require medical supervision. A specialist will design your protocol based on your hormonal profile and history, with monitoring via ultrasounds and lab tests.
Sources
- American Society for Reproductive Medicine. Evaluation and Treatment of Infertility: A Guide for Patients (2020).
- MedlinePlus. In Vitro Fertilization (2022).
- Practice Committee ASRM. Testing and interpreting measures of ovarian reserve (Fertility and Sterility, 2017).
- Mayo Clinic. Pregnancy after 40: Health risks for mother and baby (2021).
We know how challenging this journey can be. You are not alone: trust in your strength and seek professional support. Consulting a fertility specialist can make the difference in your life story.