We are Fernanda and Dani, a couple of two women who chose to build our family through assisted reproduction. We met in Cuernavaca and currently live in Aguascalientes. From the beginning of our relationship, we knew we wanted to become moms, and after researching all the options, we discovered that artificial insemination was the perfect path for us.
The process was faster and more precise than we imagined. With the support of Dr. Dayna and the entire team at Ingenes, we felt supported every step of the way—from the initial tests to the hormone injections and the insemination itself. The care we received was warm, human, and personal; they explained every detail like a friend would, answering all our questions and giving us the confidence we needed.
Getting the news that Fernanda was pregnant was indescribable
Excitement, nerves, and joy all in one moment. The wait for the confirmation test was intense, but the medical team was there for us the entire time, supporting both the physical and emotional aspects.
Pregnancy was a time of learning and love. Dani was there for every detail, supporting and caring for Fernanda throughout the entire process, and together we enjoyed every stage—even with the nerves, hormonal changes, and special care that pregnancy required. Alonso arrived at 37 weeks via C-section, and the medical team made us feel supported, informed, and truly cared for.
Alonso, our son, came into our lives full of personality, joy, and health. From day one, he taught us the value of patience, family unity, and the happiness of bringing a wanted baby into the world. His presence strengthened our family bonds and made us feel even prouder of the family we’ve built.
To all LGBTQ+ couples and anyone dreaming of becoming a mom or dad, we want to say this:
“Don’t let fear or prejudice stop you from building the family you long for. Get informed, seek support, and go for it. Every wanted and loved baby is an invaluable gift.”
Our experience taught us that motherhood, no matter the family structure, is lived through love, preparation, and the intention of giving our children the best from day one. Alonso came into our lives at the perfect moment, and every moment with him has been absolutely worth it.